Women can be unpredictable. One moment they’re interested, the next they’re not returning your messages. Focusing all your energy on one woman is a losing strategy because the success rate for any single prospect is low. Many men fall into the trap of chasing one target, failing, then starting from zero again. This not only weakens their dating momentum but also fuels neediness. When a guy has no other options, his confidence dips, and every setback feels personal—an emotional roller coaster

If you want results in dating, you have to play the numbers game. Think of it like this: approach X women, get Y numbers, go on Z dates—and only a few lead to intimacy. Success comes through steady effort, not luck. Momentum matters. Like a surfer waiting for waves, you must stay in long enough to catch the good ones. If you want a real connection—or even a casual fling—you must be active, consistent, and engaged. One approach won’t cut it; fifty might.

Dating momentum works like muscle memory—the more often you approach, the sharper your social instincts get. Early on, your prospects may be average or even unappealing. Over time, as experience builds and your confidence grows, higher-quality women start responding. With enough practice, even those you once thought “out of your league” become accessible. Even bad dates serve a purpose: they desensitize you to rejection and strengthen confidence for the next approach.

There’s no shortcut in the dating world—only consistent effort. If you want results, get out there, meet women, talk, flirt, and learn from every encounter. Reading dating advice or watching videos helps only at the surface level. Real progress happens through practice and persistence. The more time you spend socializing and refining your style, the more natural confidence you exude. Success in dating is the same as success in life—it rewards those who show up, stay humble, and do the work